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How to face the situation, when your friend know 'Tai Chi'

This happens during my college life. In a group assignment, my friend always used 'Tai Chi' to push everything for me. But in front of others, he will use his fabulous talking skills and make the mirage-like he is doing many things. Sometimes, I am really angry and sad about his attitude, but his speaking skills and social skills are very good. Hence, I think even I try to scold him there will be no changes. So, I choose to be quiet and bear all the works that push for me. But after a few times of thinking and fighting within my soul, actually, i feel that I need to thank him. Because when I go for out after graduated, I will definitely meet this kind of people anyway. So he is just like a training for me, train my skills in coping this kind of situation. The purpose of this blog is I want to convey the message to everyone same like me that meet the friends that always used 'Tai Chi', just bear with them because it is a very good training for you. Not need to fight wi...

What should be focus actually?

From the newspaper, there are too many news regarding the racism. Usually, it will become the weapons for the election, hence, now we can see that there is so many racism topic's news pops out from the newspaper. For examples, the lobby only for Muslim, Chinese primary school topic and the Chinese new year issues (for Chinese it's dog year). So, these issues keep coming out and fulfill the newspaper. The politician used them to attack each other and created even more issues. I am not sure what is the purpose of doing so. Just for fun or they just want each race to fight with each other. Actually, the leaders should focus the attention on the issues like education, technology, environment and humanity shaping. But our leaders like happy and enjoy fighting with one another regarding the petty and tiny issues. They are putting the point of focus in the wrong way. If the reasons for the politician fight for the racism issues is because of they want to win the election, I prefer t...

learn to be alone

Today, I have a little bit sad because I feel that I lose all my friends. I not really sure when they suddenly treat me so cruel and cool. I know that sometimes are because of my emotion and sham character. But I feel that it is my personal character that I have since the past 18 years, why I need to change myself. Yes! We do not need to change ourselves to make others happy. Just be ourselves, do what we like and enjoy the life. We born as a unique creature, why we need to follow how others want us to live. We have our own life to survive. When we follow others' will, we will only become the person that others want us to be. Then what the differences between us and the doll. Actually, you won't feel alone when started to learn something and do something. But remember not keep swiping your personal app to spend your whole day. It just a waste of time, and at the end, people will feel that you are useless and weak. You need to learn something useful and good for yourselves. ...